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The Bag That Starts Conversations

Three strangers have complimented my handbag this fortnight. Three. My old black one went twelve years without a single remark, and I'm starting to understand why people talk about this one.

Every bag I've ever owned was chosen the same way: black, sensible, goes with everything, noticed by no one. Which is a perfectly good system until you realise 'goes with everything' has quietly meant 'adds nothing' for over a decade.

The Aurevielle, from York Boutique — a British label I order from often — is the first bag I've bought with some personality to it: a patchwork of warm autumn colours in a soft PU leather, stitched like something handmade, with a braided detail down the front. It's the kind of bag that looks collected rather than bought.

And it's practical in exactly the ways that matter at my age. There are proper zipped compartments front and inside, which is why the keys, the glasses case and the purse each have their own home now — no more excavating at the till while a queue forms behind you. The strap adjusts to sit on the shoulder or across the body, and the whole thing is light enough that you forget it's there.

Keys, glasses, purse — each in their own pocket, found first time, every time.

That's where the conversations keep starting. The waitress on Tuesday. A woman at the bus stop. Pauline, obviously, who has now ordered her own. I'll admit I did check before ordering that I could send it back if the colours were loud in person — you can, within a fortnight, and the delivery's free — but in person they're warm rather than loud, like a good autumn coat.

It's listed at £70 and sells for £34.95 because York Boutique sell direct with no middleman. If your bag has gone twelve years without a compliment: this is the cure.